Tuesday, May 31, 2011

Mentors

This year has gone by so quickly that it is difficult to really comprehend the whole 180 days.  Each day has brought a new adventure and learning experience, but with each new day, it seems to erase the prior experiences.  I have found that I have to focus on the moment at hand and do not have much time to digest or think about the prior day's experience. 

One thing that I do wish was different this year is having a mentor.  For some reason I was not given an official mentor.  I know that this position could be fruitless if it is not the right match, but that being said...someone (I think) would have been better than no one.

There have been some days that a voice of reason would have been helpful.  There have been some days that any voice would have been helpful!!!  Trust me, I am not one to shy away from asking for help. I understand the importance of perspective and different points of view. 

At times, I would call my Superintendent directly.  She was a Godsend~but believe it or not she recently passed away. This totally unexpected happening has left fewer and fewer people to rely on. I am not complaining, just stating the facts.  I miss her terribly and wish I valued her more when she was living.  I did not understand how blessed I was until it was all taken away.

I have learned that those that are truly willing to help are far and few between, but that does not mean I should give up.  I believe that I need to widen my net and cast a bit deeper.  There must be those who are willing ro share, collaborate, and learn together.  I cannot, and will not believe that this position is as isolating as it has felt this year...and if I find that this is the reality, then I will work to change it for those who come after me. 

Ok...I need a mentor...any takers???
Jen

Sunday, May 29, 2011

Year One

Well, I am just about to finish year one and the lesson I have learned is...there is so much I have to

learn!

I the principal of an elementary school that is one of the most sought after schools in the district. I am the principal of a school that is blessed with wonderful teachers who have been deprived of the much needed professional growth and nurturing. They are a wonderful group of women who are in need of professional guidance.

I am the mother of two. I have a very precocious six year old, and a very devious three year old. I am a doctoral student...in desperation of finishing my program!! I have a lot on my plate, but I am not willing to eliminate one thing in favor of the other.

I would love to hear from others who are in year one...I truly believe that this is a pivotal year...a year to build on the future...my future and the future of those that I may impact.